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A perfect wedding is always a childhood dream for every person. All of us at some point in our lives have dreamt of how our wedding shall be. As you move closer to your late twenties, the topic of engagement and marriage becomes a very common one for discussion.
Every girl has some dreams of how she wants to walk down that aisle and have the perfect, fairytale-like wedding. After all, it’s an once-in-a-lifetime thing! Planning to spend the rest of your life with that one special person is exciting, but quite tedious at the same time.
With wedding planning comes great responsibilities and if you are looking forward to having that perfect wedding, below are a few mistakes you must avoid:
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Rushing to book a venue before you have your guest list ready
Are you sure about the number of people who are going to attend your wedding? It is extremely essential to prepare the guest list before you rush to book the venue.
Having even a rough idea of the number of people you need to accommodate in the venue helps you chose better. It is a natural tendency to rush and book the venue first as they fill up fast, however, that is not a wise decision. You definitely do not want to book a hall that cannot accommodate all of your guests and having a lot of empty space in your venue on the main day will be something you will want to avoid too.
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Picking your bridal party in a rush
Take some time and think about who all you want at your bridal party. Include your close ones, whether they are four or fourteen, it does not matter!
Times have changed and it’s okay to have a ‘man of honor’ if you have somebody that close to you.
Bridal parties can be expensive. Maintaining those dresses and all those accessories take quite a bit. Make a list of the people you want around you and be prepared to accept a ‘no’ politely. Not all people have the budget and you have to be understanding and polite with all your close ones and associates at this crucial time. You do want any bad blood before your main day.
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Limiting the one-plus policy to just a few
You have to understand that there will always be people to have somebody to bring along. Being choosy with who can bring a date or their significant other and who cannot would be a very cold and insensible decision.
Some people allow everybody above 18 to bring a date along, while some prefer to allow people who have been in a relationship for over a year. There are also times when only married couples are allowed. However, this is the time you must understand that singling out the singles is not a wise decision, on the contrary, it is a very cold and heartless one. Be consistent with your one plus policy and make sure the same rule implies for all your guests.
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Making non-wedding guests a part of the shower
Showering ceremony is a beautiful and exciting one. Every bride looks forward to the shower. It is all about celebrating your happiness with your near and dear ones. The bride is showered with a lot of gifts and blessings and everybody gets together to wish her luck for her married life ahead.
However, when it comes to planning the guest list for the shower, you need to be extra careful. Make sure to invite only those to your shower who you plan including in your list of wedding guests too. Calling non-wedding guests to the shower might seem as a way to attract more gifts and will put a very greedy, selfish image across.
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Skimming over the contracts
Weddings involve a lot of money and your carelessness here could cost you a bomb! You do not want to be taken advantage of, especially when you are preparing for something so big and so special.
Read through your contracts very carefully. Some people are not good at reading contracts and going through the finer points. If you are one of them, you do not need to worry. Just try your best to go through the contract at least once and then ask somebody reliable to go through it again before you finally sign it.
It is very easy to fall into an expensive trap while planning a wedding as people know you are in a rush and have a lot on your mind. Be very careful with what you agree to.
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Falling for those pictures on Pinterest you saved!
It’s obvious that you have been planning for your day for a long time and Pinterest serves you with new, beautiful ideas every day. Especially for girls, the platform is flooded with those pictures that make you fall in love with the idea of getting married.
However, you need to understand the difference between reality and the virtual world. You will be prompted with new ideas every day and every hour and this can make it very difficult for you to settle at one thing.
You have to understand that you need to draw the line somewhere. Do not be flattered by all you see online. Most of the pictures are from lavish weddings with a huge budget. Once you have chosen something that you like, do not change your decision when something else comes In front of your eyes. This can make it difficult for you and the people around you.
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Overspending on flowers and not paying enough attention to the drinks
Flowers definitely add beauty to the venue and make your day more special. Having beautiful flowers around makes your day more blissful. However, one thing that you need to understand is that all flowers are pretty. Going for flowers that are expensive and hard to come by is a foolish decision. You have other places where you need to focus your money one, drinks being one of them.
You do not want your guests going looking around for drinks and then realizing that they are over. However, not everyone has the budget for an open bar. A solution to this would be offering each guest a few cocktails and a few drinks of your choice or asking the manager of your venue for a corkage option.
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Not giving you enough time to get ready
It is your day and you definitely want to look amazing. The process of getting ready should be relaxed and full of fun. Give yourself enough time to get ready. Talk to your stylist and pre-plan everything well in advance. You do not want to rush and find yourself running about at the last minute.
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Neglecting the photographer
The photographer is one person you will thank throughout your life which is why you ensure to explain what you want. Explain to him what you want and how you want the photographs. Give him some creative space and time and ask him to take the best photos from all the good angles of his knowledge. Also, ask him for some suggestions as he is the one who is going to make that album memorable for you.
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Not acknowledging your guests
Your guests are there to join you in your celebration and make your day more memorable. It is a must to thank them for making your day more special. Generally, the bride and groom stand at the end of the receiving line which ensures that they meet and greet all the guests.
If you want to jump to the reception directly and skip the latter, you two can go round while your guests are seated. Do not forget to meet your guests who have come out of town to a part of your big day. You want to make them feel wanted and loved.
Thanking your guests is one of the most important parts of the reception ceremony. It not only makes your guests feel wanted but also helps you see happiness for you and your partner in their eyes. Many of them might also give you some tips that will help you in your married life.
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Avoiding the thank you notes
Your guests have given you those gifts with a lot of love and affection and it is important to thank them for their love and blessings. Planning how you would be sending off thank you notes is an essential part while you plan your wedding. You can order your thank you notes while you place the order for the invitation cards itself. This will give you more time to write the thank you notes. Yes, handwritten notes are a better option any day! They seem more genuine and will give you a chance to actually pen down your feelings.
Neglecting those last-minute expenses
You must always keep some money aside for miscellaneous expenses while planning your budget. Nobody knows where and when you will need the money. The tip for the driver or money for those accessories you liked at the last minute, anything can creep up and you must be prepared for anything and everything.
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Marriage is not just a ceremony, but a celebration! A celebration where two people come together and bond in love and no celebration is successful if it is not well planned. Planning helps you focus on all the finer points that add up to the beauty and grace of that special occasion.
Make sure to get together with your close ones and plan everything before you start your preparations. Plan your budget, read through the contracts, go and buy that dress that you have always wanted to wear, get in touch with your stylist and discuss what will work best for you. Most importantly, do not forget your license. Laws vary with some states which is why you need to work out your license properly. Make your guest list, prepare for the invitation cards and the thank you notes and start writing them.
But most importantly, do not forget yourself! This is your time to be happy. Prepare yourself to fulfill your responsibilities and experience love and happiness at the same time. You are about to enter a different and beautiful phase of life. Make sure you absorb all the happiness that comes your way!
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